Introduction
Lately , the issue that is spoken too much is teenage social issue. The issue is brought to lime light and discovered about through the media. Many ways of solving this issue like Seminar, Forums, Suggestions and Activities had been discovered over the years. Negative social behaviorsm should not indicate weakness of our socially to practice positive development based on principles, moral values and religion.
Definition
Basically, social problem can be defined on various negative behavior which does not in any way support or benefit the economical structure which is practice by certain society or country.
Corruption terms there no specific definition to categorie teenagers. ChildrensNork Act Youngsters 1996 explains that a child is in the range of 10 to 14 whereas in another act children are definied as those who 21 years and below. Although both these act does not state the specific age for children , generally teenagers who we are attention to are those under 21 years and below and a large number of them are still in schooling years.
Statistics and record
In Malaysia, teenagers are covering more than half the population. Same as their number, their social problems are also high.
The statistics reveals that immorality among teenagers is something serious to consider. According, to the Bukit Aman Crime Investigation Authority, (BH, 22 Sept. 1993) between 1990 to 1992, 37602 individuals were detained for crime changes. Sad to say, front this amount, 3450 are teenagers .
On the other hand, Police statistic shows among the most common crimes are breaking into houses, rioting, fight among themselves, drug abuse, motorcycle and bicycle the to ( Utusan Malaysia, Januari 1992).
Crimes committed by teenagers does not only occur in cities and urban areas , but also all over the country. For example, in the state of Kedah alone, 307 cases are reported in a year. To be specific, 204 criminals are Malays, 54 Chinese and 47 indians. The statistics also shows the number of crimes recorded an enormous increasment from year to year.
Teenagers are also likely to runaway or disappear from their homes. Drug abuse also has major number of crimes recorded.
Records also reveal immorility rate among teenagers who commit adultery is also very hight. Another outstanding problem among these group of people is the habit of wasting time and hanging around mostly in shopping complexs and entertainment contest. A survey shows, that 90% of Chinese teenagers are back home straight after such this follows by Indians 72 % and Malays 5.8 %.
Causes
From the statistics we can understand that the morality rate among the teenagers are quite high and at a worrying stage.
On of the reasons associated on immorality is their involvement is crimes. Teenagers involved in crime don’t only come from poor families but also from wealthy families as food background.
So can be said as, the main reasons for teenagers getting into crimes are because of lack of teaching and guidance from the parents. Other than this, strem, materialistic and involvement of parents in social activities , will eventually create a group between children and parents who hardly meet, neither be in the company of each other. Infact there are some parents and children who don’t see and meet each other for days although staying make the same roof.
A very rich and lavish lifestyle of a family too can contribute to this factor. For instance, parents who pamper this children to much and give a large some of pocket money,indirectly making them involved those who like to have fun and enjoy themselves. This teenagers and to enervate , and get engaged in social causes. This obviously worsen the situation. Parents who have “ don’t bother “ attitude towards their childrensbehaviour , indirectly impose a bad remark on them. Teenagers who are exposed to this at a very early stage are so vulnerable and tend to loose their direction in live.
On the other hand, unsystematic way of life , separation of parents , frequent squabbles or arguments , bend economy status and also disability of parents to suprize the education of the children will also contribute to the above said problems.
So , as parents and responsible citizens are have to do our duty by planning our activities , identify on childrens problem, guiding and advising them and being alert of what they are doing all the time.
Surrounding factors and the mass media also woulds the character of there vulnerable teenagers, who are not ready to face the challenging world. Many news, or stanles regarding unwanted issues are often broadcasted or printed. Teenagers tend to follow all there negative attitude and finally end up in shopping complexs, entertainment centres and getting too social us their friends.
The school life also plays a part in producing good individuals. Stress in school, unprofessional and other factors too purchesan individuals to find the easy way out and get oneself involve in immoral activites or crimes.
How to Overcome
Growing up is never easy , particularly when high-spirited young people reach the teenagers. These young people begin to grow rapidly , on become individual of his own right. But this transition is never simple. Such striking changes always raise seriously ant the teenagers are often uncertain what to do.
It is the parent’s responsibility to make sensible rules to guide the teenagers. Children deed serious attention from their parents. Parents must be alert of the architectures they are engaged in. They should allocate time to identify and solve their probs. Also not forgetting who their friends are. Besides that, parents should be there to give them confidence when they need, courage and are attitude in handling their problems and making decisions. Other than this, parents can also murture values of life give motivation , instill religion values training them to polite, punctual, honest being accountable and overall being a good personality who is willing to accept comments and correct themselves. Parents should be a role model to their children.
Another way is academic approach. This can be achieved by increasing their commitment in academic based or also non academic based activities like co-curricular activities, ICT and computer classes and so on.Having school based law and order. This can create fear among school children and at the same time help the school authorities parents in keeping them under control.Schools should get law enforcement authorities like the “ Police” to get involve when manner problems crises. Police law powers can be used by the CCH management in disciplined the pupils. Serious problem can be refered to the police from time to time.
Necessary steps like, counselip for the teenagers will help them to overcome their problems. There counselip session would be more meaningful if counselors are experienced and dynamics.
Closure
Various steps can be taken to control the teenage problems. But to be precise, parents are the one should be playing a major role and be responsible to educate their children and to teach them which good and otherwise. I would say without the parents commitment it’s very difficult to overcome the teenage problems. Under this friendly guidance and coursed the teenager will soon be willing to accept any reasonable suggestions provided has parents are wise enough to help his solve his problems as a mature young adult.